Regardless on how it started, who is it with, who you are hurting in the process — it is still LOVE and there is nothing you can do about it.
Have you been cheated on? Did your ex fell in love with his new girlfriend when he was still with you? Did you ever fall in love with someone who is married?
It sucks right?
Is it stupid? Is it wrong? Fuck yeah and it hurts!
But that doesn’t mean that what they have isn’t love. That doesn’t mean that what you had isn’t true. We just got to accept the fact that that love is not for us anymore (cause sometimes timing is just a bitch). You can never dicate what’s right and what’s wrong when you talk about love. It is just how it is –regardless who you are with, who you hurt, how you started and ended it.
With all these Brad and Angelina split with Jennifer Anniston memes on the internet, I can’t help but put my thoughts into this. I would have rejoiced if my ex was cheated by his new girlfriend but the thing is it would only make me feel better for a while and I would not even be the better person for feeling happy about it.
Love really has its mysteriouly ridiculous ways. Stupid enough to make us addicted to the feeling and we just need to accept that fact.
8766 Days and Counting! 
We both have been in that position and it does hurt but…. the experience teaches us forgiveness. One cannot experience true life without love so please don’t be afraid to go out and experience it. When that someone violates the trust you put in them it is them that will lose. Put them in Gods hands and watch Him bless you with that perfect relationship but…. you gotta wait for it. At least this has been our experience.